Russian Girls And The Value They Attach To Family | The Communication Blog

Tuesday, June 29, 2010

Russian Girls And The Value They Attach To Family

By Lera Cupidonova

Russian girls live in Russian. This is a country located in the northern part of Europe and borders Poland, Norway and Finland among others. Russia is among the world's biggest countries. Its among the world's most populous countries too.

Girls from Russia are known to be beautiful and trim. They learn from an early age to make an effort to look attractive for their men. So, they dress in a feminine and stylish manner and they often make their own clothes. They also use appropriate makeup to look good.

She is taught as early as possible to possess positive and high family values. Culturally, she is required to get a husband and children when she grows up. She becomes a respectable society member when she gets married. Single women in this country are sneered at by society members. So, success of a Russian girl is defined by getting married and having children.

Education is free in Russia so the women become well educated. However, the system discriminates against the women when it comes to jobs. Despite both being equally qualified, men find work more easily than women. This is one of the reasons that makes the women in Russia to value their families more than their careers.

The Russian society expects a woman to neglect or sacrifice her career when she gets married. In fact, employers normally prefer to promote men who they consider as the breadwinners. Therefore, the girls find self realization in a family while men find theirs in careers.

A Russian girl's desire to build a strong family is so great that she would prefer to help her husband develop in his career instead of developing hers. She views this as a way of distribution of responsibilities in the family. She is convinced that her responsibility is to provide a loving warm home while the man's responsibility is to provide financially for the home.

These beliefs should not be mistaken for laziness or parasitism. These are hard working women. They take care of chores in the home like cleaning, laundry and cooking. They can readily work to provide additional income for the family. However, if they earn more than the husband, they feel uncomfortable.

This shows that they still hold their traditional family values where the man is the head of the family. They happily allow the man to lead. They see nothing wrong in needing a man in their lives and being led by him.

This doesn't make her weak in any way. For her, marriage is joining of two equal partners. As a result, she doesn't like to be ordered around. She does not allow herself to be treated like a doormat by her husband. She needs her husband to respect and appreciate her and she does the same in return.

Russian girls normally look out for men to share life with till death. They therefore look for men who are mature enough to sustain the union. They do this because they believe that marriage and family are forever. Anything that can cause the family to breakup cannot be tolerated.
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