Customs For Russian Brides To Know | The Communication Blog

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Customs For Russian Brides To Know

By Lera Cupidonova

Traditional Russian weddings are much different from what we are used to in the United States. Rehearsals, flower girls, and wedding planners aren't required for this special kind of ceremony. Even so, if you're planning to be one of the traditional Russian brides you're sure to have a magical day. Here are few things you should expect.

In a Russian wedding the titles of best man and maid of honor are changed slightly. Instead these people are called witnesses, or "svideteli". The celebration of a marital joining frequently lasts for at least two days but can go on for longer.

One thing that remains the same is prep time. Preparation for a traditional Russian marriage can run anywhere from one month to six months. The registration happens in a public place. For Americans it is usually a courthouse. In Russia they call these departments of public service "Zags".

A bride who is seeking a traditional Russian wedding should look forward to gifts of bread and salt. These edible blessings come from both parents. They are considered to be a symbol of health, prosperity, and longevity.

When the couple is given these gifts they are expected to take as big a bite as they can. This is much like in America where we take the first bites of wedding cake. Only, with Russian tradition the individual who takes the biggest bite of this special bread is considered to be the head of the household.

Toasts are an important part of American marriages. They are tools in which individuals who are close to the couple can share. In traditional Russian weddings this is no different. The speaker stands and once they are finished everyone takes a drink and cheers.

In a traditional Russian wedding after the toasted is made the glasses are thrown on the ground. It is believe to be an omen of good luck when the glass shatters on impact. But if the pieces of the glass draw blood from anyone standing around this can be a sign of bad luck. It's a lesson for the newlyweds as well. You always have to take care.

Krazha Nevesty means "stealing the bride". This is just what you think it would be. It is one of the most interesting customs within the traditional Russian wedding. The bride can be snatched up if the groom is not paying close attention to her!

The groom will have to keep a sharp eye out during his wedding celebrations. Friends and family members will more than likely try to set up lavish plans in order to steal his bride. If she's stolen he will have to pay a ransom to get her back.

Being one of these Russian brides can be just as nerve wrecking as being any other kind of bride. There are tons of things you have to remember, all the while taking one of the biggest steps towards your future. Still, it's important to remember that on your wedding day you're supposed to be happy. Smile, you're getting married!
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