During the process of a break up, you are bound to be in a sensitive state and delicate decision making should probably be avoided. Things won't be very easy and it may be a little difficult to get your ex back if this is what you decide to do.
It's important to try not to make the wrong mistakes at this point, although we know everyone makes mistakes in their lives.
During a breakdown from your break up, two mistakes you want to avoid are drunk dialing and text message overload. You don't want to make matters worse by saying things you shouldn't at such a sensitive time for both of you.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.
Think about how many texts and or calls that was on your behalf over a certain amount of time. They can really add up can't they? Your intentions may be good but you are the only one who comes out looking crazy and making the tension a lot worse between you and your ex.
2. Dialing them when drunk: this will normally happen after you have been drinking and during a breakup, this leads to loneliness. You may say things you wouldn't normally say with your sober mind.
In your mind, you are pouring your heart out in hopes of getting your ex back, but in their eyes, you come off as weak, pathetic and that makes them glad the relationship ended in the first place.
So try to the best of your ability to refrain from doing either of these things. Hopefully you can catch yourself if you found yourself about to pick up the phone and change your mind. That will hopefully keep you from making a painful mistake you will regret later.
It's important to try not to make the wrong mistakes at this point, although we know everyone makes mistakes in their lives.
During a breakdown from your break up, two mistakes you want to avoid are drunk dialing and text message overload. You don't want to make matters worse by saying things you shouldn't at such a sensitive time for both of you.
1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.
Think about how many texts and or calls that was on your behalf over a certain amount of time. They can really add up can't they? Your intentions may be good but you are the only one who comes out looking crazy and making the tension a lot worse between you and your ex.
2. Dialing them when drunk: this will normally happen after you have been drinking and during a breakup, this leads to loneliness. You may say things you wouldn't normally say with your sober mind.
In your mind, you are pouring your heart out in hopes of getting your ex back, but in their eyes, you come off as weak, pathetic and that makes them glad the relationship ended in the first place.
So try to the best of your ability to refrain from doing either of these things. Hopefully you can catch yourself if you found yourself about to pick up the phone and change your mind. That will hopefully keep you from making a painful mistake you will regret later.
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