Almost every guy I know at some point in their life has asked this question. How to have confidence to talk to a woman? As a woman, I thought that every guy has the confidence and the capability of talking to women out of the blue; it's in their human nature right, but it's not. In reality men are more insecure than women.
So how do you really get the confidence in talking to women? First, look at yourself. Assess how you present yourself to the world. Make sure that your hair is tidy and clean. Shower, you need to smell good. Use of deodorant is a must - body odor is a big turn off. How about wearing cologne? Just make sure your cologne is not too strong. How about the clothes that you wear? Make sure that it is clean and not crumpled or scruffy. Personal hygiene is very important. How you dress and present your self is very important and is the primary thing in building self-confidence.
Women are attracted to confident men, which is why it is important to put confidence first. In doing so, everything will follow. This is why a man should analyze himself: is it the way he looks. Is it the way he dresses up? Or maybe it's about the way he talks to people? In other words, a man must have himself analyzed of the possible things that will hinder him from achieving confidence. Some stories has it that men with insecurities are usually the ones that have the hard time in achieving confidence when it comes to talking to women. Insecurities, whatever they are, will always be a big confidence killer.
Be mindful of your body language. This is part of the presentation that we have discussed earlier. Learn and assess yourself on the image that you want to project to women when you approach them. Do you want to be seen as a charming shy respectful guy or a cocky one? It depends on what you are aiming at but in all reality I would assume that you would like to have confidence to talk to a woman for you to meet (whatever purpose that may be).
As the title says, it all starts with confidence. Like perfume, a woman can easily smell if a guy is confident or not. Having a confident man that isn't insecure enough to talk about his weaknesses but does not boast about anything that he has makes any woman in this planet automatically interested to anything that the guy has to say. To sum it all, just think of any woman as a close friend. You can never go wrong with that thought.
So how do you really get the confidence in talking to women? First, look at yourself. Assess how you present yourself to the world. Make sure that your hair is tidy and clean. Shower, you need to smell good. Use of deodorant is a must - body odor is a big turn off. How about wearing cologne? Just make sure your cologne is not too strong. How about the clothes that you wear? Make sure that it is clean and not crumpled or scruffy. Personal hygiene is very important. How you dress and present your self is very important and is the primary thing in building self-confidence.
Women are attracted to confident men, which is why it is important to put confidence first. In doing so, everything will follow. This is why a man should analyze himself: is it the way he looks. Is it the way he dresses up? Or maybe it's about the way he talks to people? In other words, a man must have himself analyzed of the possible things that will hinder him from achieving confidence. Some stories has it that men with insecurities are usually the ones that have the hard time in achieving confidence when it comes to talking to women. Insecurities, whatever they are, will always be a big confidence killer.
Be mindful of your body language. This is part of the presentation that we have discussed earlier. Learn and assess yourself on the image that you want to project to women when you approach them. Do you want to be seen as a charming shy respectful guy or a cocky one? It depends on what you are aiming at but in all reality I would assume that you would like to have confidence to talk to a woman for you to meet (whatever purpose that may be).
As the title says, it all starts with confidence. Like perfume, a woman can easily smell if a guy is confident or not. Having a confident man that isn't insecure enough to talk about his weaknesses but does not boast about anything that he has makes any woman in this planet automatically interested to anything that the guy has to say. To sum it all, just think of any woman as a close friend. You can never go wrong with that thought.
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