There are many options to consider in the 21st century on places to spend your elder years. Finding the best option for you is something you should discuss and decide together with your family. Sad to say that many options are dictated by finances and insurance companies. Nevertheless, here are some options to consider when deciding where to live out your life.
Living with the Kids. A lot of people facing end-of-life issues don't want to burden their children. But this is mostly a new sentiment. Most cultures worldwide revere and take care of their elders. And we have done so in the US for centuries, until recently. Talk over this option with your children. They may love to have you there and offer to take turns with your care.
Aging in Place. Are you extremely independent and can't stand the thought of going to an old age home or being a burden on anyone? Truth is it costs money to live your final days at home. Costs range from renovating your home to paying for home meal delivery services. But this is a good option for many seniors these days, especially if you want to remain a part of your community.
Assisted Living Facility. This is the option between living in a retirement home and living in a nursing home. You get freedom and social functions, but there is care there should you need it. This choice is good for people who don't want to live alone or with their children.
Retirement Homes. This is the party place for seniors. Lots of activities and independent living, it's a fun choice for people who want to live around people of the same age. Many times retirement homes are linked up with assisted living or nursing facilities in case the need arises.
Nursing Home. This type of care is for full-time help with your physical needs. Around the clock care is provided. Activities are available as well as communal dining for those who are able to participate.
The decision is yours to make. But don't make it alone. Discuss all the options with your loved ones. They are involved, too, whether you like it or not. When making the decision of where to live, consider your emotional needs, too. If you are prone to becoming lonely, you should probably live with other people.
Living with the Kids. A lot of people facing end-of-life issues don't want to burden their children. But this is mostly a new sentiment. Most cultures worldwide revere and take care of their elders. And we have done so in the US for centuries, until recently. Talk over this option with your children. They may love to have you there and offer to take turns with your care.
Aging in Place. Are you extremely independent and can't stand the thought of going to an old age home or being a burden on anyone? Truth is it costs money to live your final days at home. Costs range from renovating your home to paying for home meal delivery services. But this is a good option for many seniors these days, especially if you want to remain a part of your community.
Assisted Living Facility. This is the option between living in a retirement home and living in a nursing home. You get freedom and social functions, but there is care there should you need it. This choice is good for people who don't want to live alone or with their children.
Retirement Homes. This is the party place for seniors. Lots of activities and independent living, it's a fun choice for people who want to live around people of the same age. Many times retirement homes are linked up with assisted living or nursing facilities in case the need arises.
Nursing Home. This type of care is for full-time help with your physical needs. Around the clock care is provided. Activities are available as well as communal dining for those who are able to participate.
The decision is yours to make. But don't make it alone. Discuss all the options with your loved ones. They are involved, too, whether you like it or not. When making the decision of where to live, consider your emotional needs, too. If you are prone to becoming lonely, you should probably live with other people.
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