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Saturday, September 22, 2012

Sharing a Moment With Anyone:

By Dean Miller


The basic research of human discussion is a complicated art. It seems basic but there are many boundaries that get in the method. There are barriers within us, as there are boundaries within the other person. Some barriers are situational, whilst other boundaries we struggle with all our life. But gaining a rapport, creating a moment of friendly intimacy, is not that difficult. If we are able to attain one moment of real connection with one more person, we are capable to achieve numerous of these. It all will depend on on how susceptible we are in their existence, and how susceptible they allow by themselves to be in ours.

It is a big misnomer that we are weak if we show susceptability. No, if we are deliberately vulnerable we show amazing strength. And we are not susceptible just for the sake of it, we are prone to invite others' vulnerability - we trust them with our vulnerability so they might trust us with theirs. This is the only way an intimate partnership may be formed. And let's just get this right; Jesus desired that we would be ready and available for others, appreciating that we often want others ready and available for us.

The issue of vulnerability is an important one. We cannot expect somebody else to be prone - to be available to be in effective relationship - unless we model the conduct. When we do to others what we wish them to do to us, it starts off from us. And we have to realize that being prone won't be repaid in kind all the time or even most of the time. But we need to be prepared to show the strength of character in the will to relate. We cannot turn such a point on and off. It needs to be part of our fundamental operation in all our relationships - besides where it would be openly abused.

A instant, in this speak, is a second that is transformed by the strength of God; where a brief bond between two people is achieved through frequent trust and respect. Upon such a instant we note the Presence of God. Achieving a moment such as this goes beyond all cultural norms and enters the realm of Divinity. We go from a condition of many social fears into a state of relaxed for the holiness in such a second. God is there in our midst, inside and between both the protagonists. Only one of these times is needed and the connection between these two individuals is solidified.

The greatest of human experience is the information of God in relationship with another person. When we not only realize God, alone, but now in the business of another, our pleasure of God is doubled. The power of the transformed life is the ability to with confidence and vulnerably share a moment with one more person. When we can be open and honest we are safe to be with. Folks love to interact with people who are safe and sound to be with. Be safe to be with.




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